While there are many techniques parents employ in hopes of ensuring
their children grow into adulthood as productive and socially accepted
citizens, President Donald Trump’s “calling out Nordstroms” on behalf
of his 35-year-old daughter, Ivanka, is an
example, I suppose, only the rich and powerful might consider employing.
Fashion designer Ivanka’s line of merchandise has been dropped by
upscale Nordstrom’s, according to their spokesperson, due to lagging
Trump charges in a tweet that it is a political move in response to
his recent Executive Order on Immigration and the
#grabyourwalletcampaign and it is, he says, “not fair.” as Ivanka is
a great person and “always pushes me to do the right thing.”
Unfortunately, far too many parents look to those in power, whether it
be entertainment, sports or politics, for clues on raising successful
It is the gullible folks amongst us who will see Trump with absolute
rights to protect his daughter from those who would do her wrong.
Ah, the rich and the powerful with an arsenal of tools at their disposal.
The inmate in one of my Mothers Behind Bars the Parenting Puzzle class
thought she had some power when she punched out her daughter’s
elementary school teacher.
This Mom didn’t send out tweets. But the school principal did send
out a report that banned Ms Mom from being within a certain distance
from the school. This meant she couldn’t drop the daughter off, pick
her up or visit the school.
Ah, the poor and the powerless who operate without restraint or a clue
as to the repercussions attached to their actions.
But Trump’s tweet, bringing a drop in Nordstrom’s stock, brings us to
recognize the path to success that is paved for children who belong to
rich, famous and powerful parents.
Teenager Ethan Couch, from a wealthy family, after killing four
people in a drunken car crash, received no incarceration and instead
got probation based on what became known as the affluenza defense.
Esteban Nunez, the son of politically-connected father, Fabian Nunez,
was accused of murder, accepted a plea bargain of manslaughter and was
sentenced to only 16 years which was later reduced to 7 years and then
pardoned by California Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger. The governor was a friend of Esteban’s father, who said, “I used my relationship with the
governor to help my own son. I’d do it again.” There it is. “I would
do it again.”
Let’s not be fooled. What’s good for the goose does not work for the
gander. One style of parenting most certainly does not fit all.
For those without pull, they will have a restraining order and not be
allowed to return to campus to punch out the elementary school
For those of us without “juice” our drunk-driving kid will not get
probation with a poverty and depravation defense.
For those of us without “swag” the Governor will not commute our son’s
Even if we’ve got the power of Twitter, our bad-mouthing the local
ordinance restricting our daughters from selling their handmade
crafts on the front lawn in the ‘hood, the tweet won’t make changes in
the stock market or a change anywhere else.
Listen up, parents. If you ain’t part of the 1%, your parenting style better conform to the unconnected life you live.
The Donald? He’s just doing what he’s always done – paving a
hand-molded path for successful children based on his juice, swag,
power and his position in life.
Our nation appears to be on the opposite end of what we pledge allegence to. instead, we seem to have a nation that is divisible and without liberty and justice for all.